Life isn't like a movie. You aren't going to meet someone on Tuesday, fall in love by Friday and have mad hot sex on Sunday. It takes work. It takes patience. It takes faith. Whether you have yet to have your first relationship/hook up turned soul mate/"thing" or what-have-you or you are well on your way to your 10th, don't worry. There is someone out there for each of us. I know you want to hear that if you just read my book, jump on a treadmill and buy a little black dress they will start lining up at your front door. I will be the first to tell you that I am deeply sorry. If you do all of those things they MIGHT line up, but I doubt it. It couldn't hurt though. Just be yourself and he will come. Now don't be the "self" you think everyone wants you to be, just be YOU!
Here's a trick that I do. Make a pro/con list. Then take the con list and divide it into things you can change and things you can't. Once you have a list of things you can change write down how you can change them. Be realistic. Be honest. This list is for you. You can share this work with others or keep it to yourself. It's up to you.
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