It is not that men are cryptic and confusing; we just misconstrue what they really mean because sometimes we don’t like the truth. Haven’t you ever seen the beginning of ‘He’s Just Not That into You’? When he doesn’t call or when he stands you up there is definitely a chance that something really did come up, but there is also the chance that he just wasn’t interested and didn’t know how to tell you. Try to take things at face value and be just as blunt for your partner. Don’t be sneaky or vague; just tell it like it is, if he can’t accept your true thoughts and feelings, maybe it isn’t right anyway. There is however a flip side to this. Don’t go telling him all your inner most secrets right away. Save that for later. It will probably scare him if you unload on him right from the get go. Not only is it a good idea to take story time one step at a time, but it is also nice to know that in a month or 10 years you may still have things to talk about.
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