Other or Better?

Everyone in my life has other things to do then spend time with me. These days I have started to phrase it to myself that they have better thins to do then spend time with me. Logically I know this isn't true, but my heat feels different. I could take this in two directions, I can talk about how different your head and heart are, but I wont. My thought process is that I want someone who thinks spending time with me IS the better thing to be doing. Is that so much to ask? I have no idea.